Just Give it Time

Picking yourself up from an unexpected health pattern has to be one of the hardest yet healing things to do.

Healing comes from the mind. It is true.

It is vicious to expect people to heal faster, grieve faster and adjust normally regardless of the misfortune that comes their way, when it is never as easy.

Just because something has never happened to you does not give you the right to assume that those affected should fiercely walk over it.

If they do, they won’t be fine. They’ll look fine yes, but they will not be fine.

People who have gone through the most, feel the most. But still, they will choose to move on with life. Not because it is easier that way but because they is no other choice.

Moving past an emotional turmoil is a test in itself. It is difficult.

I have been tempted. I have been tried. I know what pain really is. I have endured.

There is never a manual but one thing is for sure, praying played a very big part in my healing.

You do not need to be the best at it but just start, just pray, just believe!

To be healed and to feel it is what I pray for everyone who has had it rough.

I was told that my body would go back to normal after my surgery in about four weeks but that wasn’t it.

Healing is not linear it is complex and lonesome. It is season. Some go a little longer and some are short lived.

So please, always meet everyone with kindness and great composure. What you might assume to be normal could be a whole new achievement for someone.

Never sideline anyone’s happiness just because to you it does not make sense.

We live, so we learn and we love, because we can.

So please, whenever you meet anyone out there, be a little kind. You never know what someone is battling.

To everyone hurting, just give yourself time. I promise it will get better. Might take a while but it always gets better. Always!